Bayberry as a Prosperity Charm

Bayberry as a Prosperity Charm

Andrew Watt

The last several years, and beginning even before we were married, my wife and I have given bayberry candles as presents at Winter Solstice. Usually, we attach a red ribbon and a tag with one of the many surviving rhymes from US colonial-era folklore:

  A bayberry candle burnt to the socket brings food to the larder and gold to the pocket.

Or possibly you’ve heard a slight variation on this.

  A bayberry candle burnt to the socket puts health in your body and gold in your pocket.

Or again, the longest one my wife and know of (but not always the one we use).

  These bayberry candles come from a friend:
  On [Christmas] Eve or New Year’s Eve, burn it down to the end.
  For a bayberry candle burned to the socket
  will bring joy to the heart & gold to the pocket.

It wasn’t until this year that I found myself wondering why it was that bayberry, so specifically, should be the key ingredient in this charm for the New Year. So I began to do some research, and made a couple of intriguing discoveries.

First, I was startled to learn that bayberry (Myrica cerifera) is native to North America rather than a European import. Originally found on the Mid-Atlantic coast from Delaware to southern Connecticut, English settlers successfully transplanted it to the Caribbean, too.

That meant these charms were neither Welsh nor English in origin. Instead, they were the result of Europeans learning important lessons from the new landscapes of New Jersey, Long Island, Rhode Island, and Cape Cod — possibly through interactions with Native peoples who already lived here, definitely through study of the plant itself. Both Natives and colonists used bayberries as a potent but somewhat risky medication taken as a tea or syrup for exciting and supporting the immune system. More often, though, the berries were boiled in order to extract the wax and essential oils to make candles that scented the air and allegedly drove off disease. Somewhere along the line, Europeans learned that the berries were risky to ingest but easy on the lungs and throat.

One of the plant’s other interesting features is that it creates nodules in its root system — tiny organic caves, almost — which serve as sheltered homes for symbiotic fungi that fix nitrogen in the soil at rates even higher than most legumes. Gardens with bayberry bushes thus tend to thrive, because they make this key nutrient available to other species in their environment. Plant bayberries, and your garden would thrive.

So the rhyme, which for many years my wife and I thought to be of English origin, is really of American origin — the result of communication between original inhabitants, European settlers, and the plants themselves.

And so, after many years of following this custom of giving out bayberry candles to burn at Winter Solstice for prosperity and health in the new year, I can regard it as a special tradition that doesn’t come from Scottish crofters or English peasants or even Welsh carolers parading beneath a Mari Llwyd horse-skull. No. It comes from us. It’s native to here. And maybe that’s a path forward for us all — to recognize that we don’t have to spend all our time regarding our European ancestors as the sole source of spiritual truth. To some extent, it’s necessary for us to recognize that we’re here on this ground, and our spirituality and customs have to be rooted in the places where we live and where our children and grandchildren will grow old. And maybe that means that we have to walk with greater grace and acceptance of the First Peoples who lived here, and honor what they taught our predecessors.

With that in mind, I decided to write my own rhyme, and add to the folklore around this little bit of winter magic, the bayberry candle.

  Our foreign forebears learned to know this land,
  and humbled themselves to learn its treasures.
  Bayberry made golden soil from sand,
  wafting aromas of year’s-end pleasures.
  “Friends, please come, burn these bayberry tapers;
  warm up at the hearth, sing songs of good cheer;
  drink of this wine, eat salmon with capers —
  tell tales to last ’til the turn of the year!”
  So it had happened in long-ago days,
  as the bayberry burned to the socket —
  and shall again, when we revive old ways,
  and treat friends better than gold in pocket.
  Then, a New Year rich with health, wealth and peace,
  is ours for giving — and getting — with ease.

Stones for the Season: Yuletide

by Sarah Lyn

Stone has a beautiful language. Anyone who has ever had a rock jump out at them has heard it. Pick me! Pick me! Before you know it, you have either slipped it into a pocket, or you find yourself holding it in your hand, uncertain of how long it has been there.

Deep stone sleeps but the closer to the surface it gets, the more connected it is to us and our life cycles. Some rocks just want to introduce themselves and have a conversation. Some rocks will bite and want to be left alone. And some rocks have been looking for you to take them on a quest to some unknown corner of the world they have only heard about in the whispers of the deepest bedrock (even if that’s just your front yard).

[ALWAYS respect places that ask you NOT to take their rocks.]

The Trio

Clear Quartz, Selenite, Citrine

Different stones I encounter have different energies to them. Each sabbat, I put together a trio of stones to focus on for the following six weeks. It’s divination to me. I reach out into the web and see where we are in the world, creating a recipe of stone allies, and then I send that energy back out into the web.

I don’t usually use the same grouping of stones every year, but a couple of times I have. I will work with these ones in my night meditations until the next sabbat, sometimes individually and sometimes as a group.

The stones I chose for Yule this year are: Clear Quartz, Citrine, and Selenite.


Quartz

If they’re familiar with crystals, most people are familiar with Quartz, a hard mineral composed of silica. It’s a crystal that everyone can tap into and connect with. It comes in a wide variety of flavors, so to speak, but I am working specifically with Clear Quartz. Many beloveds in my life right now are seeking the kind of clarity and focus that Quartz offers. I think about Quartz like this… I have a friend who went hiking on the glaciers in Alaska and on the journey they drank some of the running water from the center of a glacier. She tells me that we have not tasted real water yet… I believe her. Quartz is like that for me— a powerful crystallizer of intent. 

See clearly, it says to me.


Citrine

Another stone most people are familiar with is purple Amethyst. This year, I chose its kin Citrine, a yellow crystal. When Amethyst is exposed to extreme heat and pressure over time, it becomes Citrine. You can often find pieces of Ametrine, showing both purple and yellow coloring.

Citrine is rare in its natural form. Most Citrine on the market is heat-treated Amethyst. Still technically Citrine, and much more affordable, but not nature-made. And most heat-treated versions turn a dense yellow-brown.

As another variety of quartz, Citrine joined with Clear Quartz radiates joy and opens the mind for new beginnings. If Quartz is a focuser, then Citrine is its laser pointer. I associate it with the solar plexus chakra, and as a stone of decisiveness and courage. On the longest night of the year, it is a useful tool against the darkness.

Strike the match within, it whispers steadily.


Selenite

A favorite stone of mine is Selenite. It is made of gypsum and its structure is 70% water. And like water, it helps you with letting things go. I associate this stone with the emotional body and often use it for healing. It also looks like ice and is helpful in soothing energies associated with stressful family scenarios at the holidays. I decorate heavily with them and they feel peaceful. Even though they are constant workers, I associate them with the joyful stillness of the season.

Float with the current, it says.

Together this trio creates a peaceful clarity. They also remind me of light we carry through the darkness as we wrestle and/or dance with our shadows, and wait for the days to lengthen.

For Advanced Work

If you want to go deeper into this season? I recommend using a piece of Rutilated Quartz during vigil on the longest night of the year. There’s definitely a plethora of quartz this season, but it feels important to this year’s transition. The rutile inclusions are a mineral called Sagenite, which amplifies the Quartz energy. It’s an excellent stone for divination and for peering into the unknown while planning the next step on your path.

A Grief Balm

If your heart is heavy with grief this season, I would normally recommend keeping Rose Quartz nearby. But the holidays can be so heavy and may need something stronger. This year, I recommend Jade, a solid to translucent green silicate mineral. It can also be found in other colors but is most commonly known as green. It is a powerful heart protection stone, which fortifies your spirit at the same time as it works defensive magic.

[Notes from Sarah Lyn: I never purchase rocks from people who do not know where they are sourced from. It’s important to know where your rocks come from so you can make informed decisions about where to put your money. For those of us buying tumbled stones at rock shows, we’re picking up the chips of what has already been cut from the earth, we are not part of the demand that influences the mining world. But know where your stones come from.]

All photos © Sarah Lyn